Women as over-expensive dolls, men as hulks. East vs West
1) The eastern pattern of overpricing women.
Though affection between men and women is a healthy thing, objectification of both sides is mindlessly diverting this healthy tendency into a maladitive ill form, especially for the poor people who can't afford the costs of being into relationships.When a portion of these poor people become having this ability, they are ruined with previously imposed errly views, creating just more damage to their relationships, and even to the society.
Society is just a natural right-wing advocate, when it's an over-conservative one it simply starts by the prohibition of premarital relations, creating more scarcity of available relations, and contributing to the skyrocketing of regular relationship costs.
Often, initiating a socially acceptable relationship in an over-conservative society is tremendously a bad monetary decision for guys.
They find themselves obliged to pay tributes for the bride's family.
In addition to pay the bride her fair share of golden accessories, and a fixed huge amount of money.
So, if you wish to marry a woman, you must be extraordinary wealthy, drown yourself in dept, or work extra hard for long years just to fulfill the requirements in just a few days.
Mainly, girls are sold for men like mortgages.
If you choose the normal way of wealth accumulation per year you can survive.
If you choose being in dept, then you're doomed as your obligations will increase after your marriage, and you'll not likely be able to repay your depts.
And there's always a third option, family aid.
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2) Western free relationship medium in comparison.
Hence, domestic violence in western countries is a byproduct of cheaper relationships, the eastern pattern of overpricing women could be better than democratizing relationships, as relationships are of high prices.But sadly, the emotional and humane compatibility between every pair is often ignored, leading to heighten the probability of relationships collapse.
The eastern pattern works like the work of black market when a respective official organization fix an official price for a scarce commodity/currency, so that you can't find it in official stores and only find it in an over-value price in the black market in which the scarcity is artificially amplified.
However, the eastern pattern decreases the independency of individuals within every couple, as families are the main factors of relationship initiation success, they can also penetrate the inner lives of couples, and eventually lead to their collapse.
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3) Scarcity does not include information, namely "falsy information".
Media takes advantage of this materialistic scarcity, and they always find ways to fill the gap with only content of sexual hints, contributing more to the objectification process.Their content is easily produced at relatively low cost.
They showcase girls as dolls, mainly moaning for attention from alpha males, who are, in turn, looking for the finest looking dolls and they don't mind using violence to achieve their goals.
With girls (in media) putting unrealistic thick layers of makeup, and going over plastic surgery transformation that turns them from normal-looking people to the ideal shapes of plastic living dolls.
Hence, more and more "actual" girls (following the media idols) are rolling the streets with also thick layers of makeup and skimpy clothes that define every curve of their bodies, which is indeed a mere objectification of how girls look like, which is obviously imported from the west, where democratization of relationships is marketed through women's right of freely wear what they want, though sexual affection is the main factor playing in these western free mediums.
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4) Conclusion.
Collide between east and west is always inevitable.The most right-wing conservative part of any eastern society sees the western imports as devilish, though it is also blind from its positive contribution to this structure of artificial scarcity.
The main blame is not onto the imported western style, but on the eastern society's old-fashioned strategy that continuously losses its credibility as it can't circumvent and counteract "structurally" the new open wave of "falsy information" and adoption of western spectacles.
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